PErsiapan Majlis perkahwinan- 2 more weeks!!

hai ...

lama aku tak update.... well....penat sikit ah bulan puasa ni...kebanyakannya sebab penat dalam kepala....selagi hari NYA tak settle...selagi tu aku akan rasa macam ni... skrang baru aku paham kenapa kawan2 takda mood je bila nak dekat2 hari....aku pun macam takda mood gak..tapi disebabkan aku tak nak jadi macam this one person masa dia nak dekat2 kawin...aku hari2 sentiasa ingatkan diri sendiri...MUST BE HAPPY and always smile to other people eventho sometimes you want to scream.... tapi kiranya strategy ni menjadik..bila kita senyum kat orang orang senyum kat kita kita jadi suke..and rasa every prob bleh settle punye ah... fuh...

ok..ape nak bagitau?

-kad jemputan da siap....dah hantar dah....sekolah punya pun dah edar...so kiranya kite cakap kat en.tunang..."no turning back abang..." heheh...

"adeke cakap kite nak lari..tak senonohla sayang nih.."

kawan2 ...sapa nak kad kita yang very simple and very cute and very RAYA feel nih...very murah.... tenkiu cikgu m nor...antarla add nanti kita pos- mail me dianajohari@yahoo.com....tapi lau tak sempat...jemputlah datang...

DIANA DJURAINI JOHARI & SYAIFUL ANUAR SEHARAN
SABTU 3 OKTOBER 2009
14 SYAWAL 1430H
DEWAN SRI BANANG SM TEKNIK BATU PAHAT JOHOR

-em... haa.....baju da siap.....huhu....cantiknya aku....(PRASAN TAHAP GABAN) baju pun simple design je...so...i think u can see a recurring theme here....well...thats me...tapi ku cakap betulla...its so different when your dress is made by someone whos in love with her profession...aku terharu sampai tak terkata ape2...aku ke tu? iesyh....tak caye2....

BAJU KAWIN...TEASER...

- perbincangan tentang perjalanan majlis dah selesai...

meeting bersama2 pasukan penggerak majlis dah dijalankan...terimakasih cikgu amad...
food diketuai oleh cikgu rahman...ari tu masakkan masa tunang...peh sedap...takut aku yang makan bersungguh ..time majlis...Tak malu punya pengantin...huhu...
menu nanti la update after...surprise skit.....
drinks special sket....my KP mr John belanja....tenkiuuuu...
kek pengantin panitia BM taja....tenkiu Kak Huda and Kak Ima...
MC Majlis Kak Ima....
akan ada konvoi moto besa la...ape tah....semua aku serah bulat2 kat diorang...
ada band...lagi...so...harap2 meriah la majlis aku....
hiasan dewan cikgu amad... kendarat budak2 sekolah....rumah bersanggah pakai rumah PK1
kak ed jadi pengapit...tapi dia lagi neves dari pengantin...hehe....
favors bag budak2 isik....
HAA...korang tau....semalam meeting guru...pengetua siap powerpoint kan tarikh majlis...cess...malu aku...tapi yelaa skolah tuan rumah...macam majlis ape plak...dahlaa diorang cadang2 nak jemput ppd laa...wakil rakyat laa...haih...lantakla..bab ni aku tak campur....
aku okkk jeee....
hantaran da siap...tapi lum amik...tengok ari tu macam lawa tu...bagus2....berbaloi duit aku kuar...
borang dah hantar kat jurunikah...mintak tolong ayah kak ed...alhamdulilah settle..insya Allah...

aku tak tau apa aku akan buat kalau takda diorang nih...kak ed..cikgu amad...kak ima...
sejak2 dari saat arwah mak masuk hospital...sampai dikebumikan...sampai perjalanan majlis...merekalah yang jadi penyokong...aku sampai tak malu dah mintak tolong diorang...kalau ada orang cakap cakap jahat pasal diorang,..orang tu la manusia paling bodoh sekali...keikhlasan diorang tak dapat aku balas sampai bila2....

next...tinggal booking hotel...haa aku bersiap kat hotel...malam tu pun kat hotel..erhmm..eheh...*winkz*
..rumah tutup...nikah kat masjid jam 10 pg hari sama...
apelagi? hari khamis sebelum majlis amik telur pindang....along anta kek ari rabu...khamis lukis inai...
pasang pelamin probably jumaat la...

aku amik cuti jumaat and isnin je...en.tunang isnin da keja...padan muka aku...
majlis belah dia lambat lagi...bulan 11 kot...lum set tarikh....

tula....suma dalam kepala jek nih....minggu last tu aku keja lagi...anyway...da persiapan pun kat skolah...kenalaa aku gi skolah...

kat skolah..diorang da usik2...aku sengih jek....darah manis..darah manis...
dugaan banyak gak....aku asik tinggal baranggggg je merata tempat...satu malam tinggal laptop kat part-time class...dahh....kak ed gak teman balik amik...tinggal hp kat tepi pagar umah....kelam kabut da sampai skolah balik rumah menentang jem...sampai rumah..rupanya dalam keta bawah seat...ntahpeeeetahhhhhh....haih.....

doakan semua berjalan lancar ehh.......

Perihal Temubual Bakal Pengantin and Persiapan Kahwin - more updates!

oohhkay... mana nak start?

I MS D WOULD LIKE TO WISH ALL FRIENDS AND READERS OF THIS BLOG A BLISSFULL RAMADHAN...

ramai gak follow blog aku nih... (perasan) to those that got help from reading my blog..im glad... :D my friends say i like to help people! i do! hehe...

i told all of you in the last entry im goin' for my temubual bakal pengantin kan cuti pose nih..so...

DAH SETTLE!! huhu

ni si nad nazira mesti suka nak baca nih..

keh...setelah en tunang hantar by pos laju all his borang...his interview kat pejabat agama daerah dia la kan...
aku pun gi lerr pagi kul 10 ke pejabat agama daerah ku...

nervous giler nak muntah,sesak napas...penin, nak pitam, suma ada... (ntahapetah ngarut)

serious..mata berpinar2...nasib along teman...apa along tanya sepanjang perjalanan tu aku tak dengar dah... malam tu dahla tak tidor baca buku fardu ain...membayangkan aku tak bleh jawab pastu tak leh kawin...(Padahal tak pernah terjadi pun orang takleh kawin...)

isyh...

sampai dalam pejabat...ada kaunter khas...duk situ..senyum nervously anta borang...dia check..sambil tu bual2 kosong...ramah tamah pegawai2 agama tu... pastu masuk bilik temubual..

hehe...gelak la bila aku ingat balik...

tanya nama...pasangan...borak2....pastu...ada satu borang...ni dia soalan bocor untuk pengantin johor..ada 6 benda yang wajib dia tanya and dia akan tick dalam borang tu..

1.syahadah
2.fatihah
3.rukun islam
4.rukun iman
5.toharah (bersuci)
6.tanggungjawab suami isteri dalam islam...

dah ngucap, baca fatihah...pegawai tu cakap...

cikgu kan....
ha ah...
tak yah tanya banyak2 laa....

hehe....untung jadik cikgu nih

tapi ada soalan bonus...tapi macam ni laa...tak tau cakap tak tau...jangan sombong...bukan dia tak bagi kawin...saje je...anggap ilmu..dapat la ilmu sikit ari tu...

lepas tu...keluar..cop..sain...bayar 17 inggit lagi ...dah....gi bawak borang ke imam/jurunikah and booking hari nikah keh...tu je untuk temubual bakal pengantin johor....(APE?TUJE?YANG KO PEGI NERVOUS NAK MUNTAH TU PESAL??)

****ntah*** :P

UPDATE PERSIAPAN KAHWIN

awal cuti pose aritu ku ke key el...so ni la yang dapat...

kasut untuk majlis ..my first ever high heels ...well the highest i can go la...not that high kot for others..(yeke aku bleh jalan nih?) erm..praktis la eh...

tudung nikah..namanya bawal diva...eleh..diva sangat la..tapi aku suka...hihi

tadi gi kampung...

yea yea baju nikah da siap!

ari jumaat ari tu en tunang datang bp...gi beli reben and hiasan hantaran dia...yelaaaa orang ada makcik and kakak2 kreatip..ku pun gi anta barang hantaran..bekas da siap..emm...suke...lawa...gamba nanti la suma siap kang ku load...
the two of us then gi jumpa pak andam...si fid tu...

en tunang akhirnya akur pakai baju putih! yea! ukur baju...try jaket..emm..terjatuh chenta balik pulak..eheh...hensem jugak bakal laki aku nih...

terberangan jap....emm...

anyyyyywayyyz.....

bincang konsep...so my pelamin is black and silver....

jangan lupa ye fid....tarik kain dari ujung ke ujung....

okay kak....jangan risau.....

baju ku putih...just a very simple design...so pak andam suggest my headdress be more showy..he suggested arab style...alaa penari gelek tu..kat kepala...

lawa ke muka akak buat tudung gitu fid?
ehh...lawa...akak tengok ni dia tutup pipi sikit...nampak slim...baju pun simple je kan..biarla kepala tu vogue sikit youuuu....

heeehhoooo...aku okay...yang penting lawa...tapi yolah...orang tak pernah bergaya macam aku nih...lawak tak ar? ahhhhh tak kira tak kira....

inai kat dia rm50 jek..tangan kaki siap...dia kata buat 2 days b4..ok set...

pelagi ek?

aku pun da beli CL...yelaa...takkan nak pakai spek masa kawin...taknampak laa bulu mata palsu yang tebal tu nanti...tapi...bleh ke aku pakai ni? tak penah pakai wooo....any tips?

lagi...
tinggal beli sweets (tak beli2...malas nak masuk town laa...semak..)

and tunggu kad jemputan siap....
tujela dulu...

What I Wish Somebody Had Told Me Before I Walked Down The Aisle

ku suka betul article ni... good advice for us yang belum lagi tapi akan kawen ni... baca and renung2 kan... then ask yourself... are u truly ready? hehe... me? ok da... ready set go! huhu

What I Wish Somebody Had Told Me Before I Walked Down The Aisle

Have you ever decided to do something and been so head over heels convinced that you had all the answers that you either didn’t seek advise from anyone or you ignored valuable wisdom shared with you? On more than one occasion I have listened to couples talk about being so starry eyed in love that in spite of what others tried to tell them, they truly believed love would carry them through their marriage journey.
After attending a number of weddings in the past 6 months, I was curious about what kind of advice newlyweds wished they had received once they realized they didn’t know it all.
One woman shared that she and her husband have been married 10 months. They lived together before they married. They thought the only thing that would be different after they married was the ring on their finger. Now they know that could not be further from the truth. She wishes someone had told them not to live together before marriage and how steep the learning curve is in the first year.
Many couples preparing for marriage assume living together is the next step before walking down the aisle. Test-driving the marriage to determine compatibility and save money seems logical. The only problem with that is research shows there is no substitute for the real thing. The best way to prepare for a great marriage relationship is to spend time together getting to know the love of your life, participate in premarital preparation to learn skills for healthy communication, conflict resolution, problem solving, goal setting, etc., talk with couples who have been married for a number of years and ask them their secret to keeping their marriage on track or getting back on track after troubled times, and be willing to discuss areas where you don’t agree. Dealing with these issues before you tie the knot could be one of the best investments you make in your relationship. As you do all of these things, ask yourself how committed you are to the relationship. The key to a healthy lasting marriage is commitment to make it work.
Another young bride confessed that she and her husband really didn’t talk about finances before they walked down the aisle. Even though they had their paychecks automatically deposited and bills set up for automatic payment, she actually had no idea what was in their checking account at any given time.
“Not too long after we married, I decided to spend a little extra on payday,” said Susan*. “Little did I know, I almost caused us to bounce checks because it was the first of the month, the time when many of our largest bills are paid. To this day, we still haven’t established a budget.”
Research shows that money is one of the least important factors when couples are considering marriage. However, it is the number one thing that creates distress in marriage. Many couples go deep in debt trying to furnish their home, drive nice cars, and generally “keep up with the Jones’.” Instead of trying to immediately have what your parents accumulated over many years, participate in a money management seminar that will teach you how to budget your money. Most money experts agree there are three cardinal rules to follow when it comes to managing your money: Spend less than you make, avoid going into long-term debt, and put away a little bit for a rainy day.
One couple shared that even though they love each other, adjusting to having someone else around and having to consider their thoughts, feelings, likes and dislikes is a huge change. Everything from how they are going to get ready in the morning with only one bathroom, bedtime when one of them is a night owl and the other isn’t, to spending habits, how to do the laundry, a clean bathroom, in-laws/extended family, visitors in your home and time for date nights are now topics up for discussion and negotiation.
Learning how to do the marriage dance without stepping on each other’s toes is a skill that takes time to master. The best thing you can do is talk about all of these issues as they arise. Keeping your frustration to yourself will only create friction in your relationship. This is where you learn it isn’t all about you and your wants and desires. It is learning how to let another person be a part of your life. You have to figure out how to give and receive and compromise.
One bride said she wished she had known she would have to sacrifice who she was for the sake of her marriage.
Healthy marriage isn’t about sacrificing who you are when you come together as one. Coming together should make you better as an individual and better as a team. Talking about career expectations, children, individual and collective goals before you marry will be helpful. There are seasons in marriage when you choose to make sacrifices because it is honoring to your relationship. This doesn’t mean that one person does all the sacrificing.
Finally, almost every couple I spoke with talked about keeping expectations realistic. Just because you marry someone, doesn’t mean he/she is going to be able to meet your every need, make you happy and be perfect all the time. There will be disagreements. You will make mistakes. Believe it or not, there will be times when you don’t feel head over heels in love. That doesn’t mean you married the wrong person. Nobody is perfect. We all have needs and opportunities for growth. Instead of focusing on your own needs and your spouses’ weaknesses, focus on your spouses’ needs and strengths and on your own opportunities for growth. Even after 17 years of marriage and being immersed in information about how to keep a marriage on track, I still have to keep myself in check when it comes to my expectations of my husband and our marriage.
Getting your marriage off to a great start takes at least as much preparation time as you put into your wedding day. The couples I spoke with have high hopes for a long lasting healthy marriage. If that is your goal, make it a point to start investing now in your relationship. The return on your investment will be worth it!

article source: FIRST THINGS FIRST.ORG

Epi nu Year....

wah... 2009 akan tiba! huhu tua nya aku rasa.... well tahun baru azam baru..mmm bagiku azam lama.... kumpul duit.... ape lagi... my best fren da selamat bersalin...congrats... anak nama macam artis AF! huhu... aku ni tak kawin2 lagi... takpe ... macam aku and abangku cakap....enjoy the moment...nak kejar ape...tua da memang tua da...huhu.... takpe.... kita tengok camne dia akan realisasikan impian kami... by the way... naik keja ada kejutan... hint... *gambar jari* huhu... mm... best2.... bukan ape... kabel cam aku simpan kat opis... malas nak gi amik.. nanti ku upload and look at the glitter people! huhu... tanda per-kawanan kata kawan aku... jadila dari takde pe kan...

Abangku da abih kursus kawin....

fuyoo... tak sangka dia go tru jugak... hihi ku ingat dia memain ari tu... well... sahla dia dah gi... aku lum gi ni... camne ek... nantila..... 3 bulan sebelum kan minimum... hehe.... so.. banyakla dia citer kan tadi serba sedikit.... paling penting borang....arghh... borang borang borang tak abih2... da la keja tak abih2 isi borang....mm... bab interview karang aku ngeri sikit... aku ni da la kekadang blur... hehe... kekadang la.... and yang paling penting.. dia paling suka cerita tentang tanggungjawab seorang suami.... mmph... bukan bab batin je la...korang ni...xsnonot.... bab menjaga hati isteri... tu la ku pelik... suma orang pegi kursus kawin sebelum kawin...brsungguh2 uztaz and penceramah bercerita tentang rumahtangga...tanggungjawab... blablabla... tapi.... perceraian menjadi2... pukul isteri...tinggal anak... blum lagi yang kecik2...penderaan emosi... abaikan perasaan isteri... isteri tak layan suami..haa jangan ingat ku tak ingat nak mention pempuan... isteri carik lain alasan suami tak memenuhi kehendak... tu yang aku tak paham... tapi agaknya cam ni la.... suma orang amik subject sains tapi lepas skolah tanya brapa warna pelangi? bukan suma org bleh jawb kan.. hehe... bleh tak jawab?

kenduri kahwin yang kedekut....

huhu...... jahat nyer aku... tapi betulla.... ku kat sini....gile2 cerita pasal hantaran, wedding gifts, door gift, benda comel... rupanya ada orang tak bagi.... ehehe.... dia bagi kat sedara terdekat kot...tapi... ku ni rakan sekerja pun tak dapat eh...yelaa tau laa yang kawin tu anak dia... tapi.. ishk ... haa camni ku pun tak nak bagi laa.. ehh... tak bleh... tak senonot... ku da janji ape....

tadi pengantin pakai warna peach... ntahla... bagiku...peach is a very hard color to pull... but hey... to each his own kan.... pelamin not bad... i think buat sendiri... sebab gaya macam buat sendiri...emmm bagus la berbajet... tapi... iskk... kecewa gak la... balik tak dapat ape2... hehee... nak la kenangan... gula2 pun jadikla... mmm... tula... to each his own....

The Key to Effective Wedding Planning

By Amanda Jane

Wedding planning calls for many hands. You would need to apportion the tasks amongst many people and follow up each to ensure that nothing is going amiss. Unless, you have a consultant doing the job, you need an elaborate checklist to bring your event to a successful end. We provide some hints on what you can do to organize a marvelous ceremony.

The date precedes all other planning elements in a wedding. It marks the reference point from which all services are procured. You need to choose the date with great care. It has to be one on which many people would be available. It must not coincide with a holiday, popular event or working hours. The date must conform to the theme of your wedding.

First, make a list of all that needs to be done. Next make another list of all who can help and then match the tasks with the helpers. For example, your sister can help with the decoration whilst your mother assists the caterer with the choice of food. It is helpful if you have people close to you assisting. They know your preferences, that of the family and have more at stake in the event than any other person. They therefore make the best associates as far as planning is concerned.

Start organizing early. You have nothing to lose if you book your transportation three months ahead of time. You need to secure all services ahead of time so you do not suffer any disappointment. Early booking can also save you some money through low season discounts.

Many couples would book a service and then discard the receipt or invoice. This habit must be avoided. You need to keep all evidence of contract so you can reasonably argue about any dispute that may occur. You would need the receipt to prove obligation in case a change in management occurs.

Information on wedding planning and wedding vows is readily available. You can also easily get advice about wedding favors.

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